When Life Looses its Meanings

 What happens when life looses its meanings? Most of us sit around and smoke our lives away whilst others drink till they can't differentiate between day and night. We comfort ourselves with tons of self pity and pretend nothing is wrong but what we really need is a slap on a face and need to give ourselves self respect.
On this note I can't stop but sharing some words of Rumi " You think you are alive because you breath air? Shame on you, that you are alive in such a limited way."
I thought of writing about this topic since I felt so much depression around me, so much negativity, so many beautiful people unhappy with their lives, some are even turning suicidal..ugh..Only if they knew their lives isn't only their's it belongs to everyone else who once were (or are) part of their lives. I hope some of  my psychotic friends read this since it is intended for their reading. Please put your insanity aside and get out of self pity, start respecting your individuality and free yourself from hallusinations. 
It was never promised that we will achieve all what we have dreamt of in this very life. Some wishes are meant to stay unfulfilled and the sooner we understand this fact the sooner we can break through our egos. Our problem is that we are the prisoners of our egos, we know what's good for us but despite of that our egocentric nature makes us its prisoners. Despite of our miscarried self fullfiling prophecies, we fail to break through our egos and except life the way it is.
I'm not a shrink nor some philosopher, I write what I feel, some from experience and most from feelings. Please stop runing after those things which aren't meant for you. There is one thing that I learnt brutally from life and that is we need to leave some decissions up to god, do your best to achieve them but don't turn psychotic about it just try your best in your normal state and if it doesn't turn out the way we want then let the god be the decission maker with the trust that he would decide for your best. Not many of us trust in his decission but why do we forget that he created us then why wouldn't he want the best for us. We are so egoistic that we can't accept our defeat we don't like to take on that, things can't always be the way we planned, why do we forget, this is not our game we are only the players, the one runing the show is up there watching our moves.
Not sure if there is much we can debate about. Either you ACCEPT that you can't have what you want and be happy with what you already have OR waste your life dreaming about what you could have had but can't..
Wake up call..
xoxo