An Ugly Blames the Mirror

Confusing? It is I know but it's simple if your read from word to word, I mean exactly what I wrote.

Some days ago I met someone, I spent a lot of time with her, I observed her from morning till night, something like as if I was her shadow following her around. Won't go in details it only gets tedious. 

After a week I started to see her flaws. I quickly got annoyed by her attitude.

 Much to my annoyance, I couldn't see why her attitude annoyed me. It couldn't have been the age factor, we are the same age, it could not have been her liberality since I'm not intolerant myself, It could not have been background since that's the least I noticed about her, then what was it?

Then started a reasonable speculation, why.why.why..Till I realized her moody behavior, her fiery temperament and unfriendliness towards strangers bothered me the most. After finding the reasons, It was so easy to judge her every time she would come in front of me. 

But what I realized afterwards shook my soul. I started to realize she wasn't the only moody person I knew, I was as moody as she was, we both also shared temperamental similarities and shutting yourself to strangers was also something I also inherited. 

Sometimes it does take a mirror image like person who teaches us about ourselves. Sometime ago, for me she was someone I couldn't stand but now I look at her and think oh god please help me change myself.

Sometimes it take two to get to know yourself.

xoxo