Monday, April 23, 2012

The Convenient Love..




Yay..it's me again..!

I thought I would like to explain something which people often jumble together. Love, convenience and being in love with idea of love. So confusing, I know!

It's not easy to understand the difference between actually loving someone and loving someone for the sake of being in love! read up, this might help.

When prone to fall in love, we take all aspects into consideration like convenience, time, proximity and of course socio-cultural factors. The moment you start considering such factors and weighing out the benefits and possible detriment, be ready to face that you are looking for the convenient love!

Why should love be so easy anyway? it should be the most difficult thing in the world to do! So when you have worked hard for it, you know you deserved it, and when finally achieved, it should be cherished like none other. Love should be hard work, shouldn't be everyone's cup of tea, really!

Love should be like a voice of sanity in this crazy, selfish world, it should teach one to have patience yet leave no control over one's feelings, like an X factor. Something inevitable, something for which you are ready to exchange your life for. You'd travel the world just to catch one glimpse of that person, you'd do the impossible just to make things possible for that person. ...love should be everything but convenient!

You can disagree with me, tell me love should be easy..so easy that people fall in and out love couple hundred times in their lives out of boredom! some love eh!

xoxo